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What would the world be, without all of those different perspectives?
Don't you want your accountant to be a fairly black and white kind of person? And yet, can you imagine that mindset on someone you were consulting with on paint for your home?
It ALL counts. It all matters! We all have value in this world. Perspectives we don't agree with have value. Perspectives that hurt us have value — even if only to test our dedication to our own knowledge.
When it comes to this barn project, there will be LOADS of perspectives. They will all be worth considering. Some will be discarded. All will be appreciated.
What's important is to remember the WHYs:
- A young lady who has made more gains than anyone thought possible
- A senior gentleman who would like to see his family farm restored to his mind's eye view
- A goal to prove old barns can be reborn to unique purposes that better our greater world
This weekend was quite extraordinary for the person mentioned in that first bullet. Her wonderful friends Katelyn, Sophie, Tesika and Madison, first surprised her with a celebratory birthday lunch at her favorite place, the Olive Garden. In this season of gratitude, it's well worth taking a moment to mention all that these young women have done to mentor their friend. Through the Dairy Princess program, and the Chautauqua County 4-H Dairy Project, these young people have assisted, encouraged, and befriended someone who at first, was really hard to connect with. It's taken years, but they have created an indelible bond.
As I follow social media posts in Autism groups, I become more and more aware of how lacking in friendships our special needs community members are. They crave connection, just as we do. They often don't understand why they have trouble making and keeping friends. Communication differences make forging and building those relationships hard. The isolation that happens because communication is so difficult makes the relationships that do take hold so much more valuable and necessary than other typical friendships we might experience. If you have a chance to reach out to a person on the spectrum, please do. If you connect, please don't ever let go.
Following lunch, our tribe of young friends drove my girl to Hills Valley Farm, where she became the proud owner of a Brown Swiss calf named Satin. The calf resides at the farm next door: her grandfather the primary caretaker with Autumn planning to assist at every available moment. Likely, our barn will never be ready for Satin to inhabit before she becomes a milking cow. Perhaps though, her daughters will grow up here.
Today, none of that matters to these two.
That said, it still matters to me.
We're working on estimates. Working on putting a dollar value on what we think we can do this spring. It's not easy. There are different ideas on how things should be done - that whole black and white/gray/rainbow perspective thing is making itself unmistakably apparent.
The Barn Diva is aiming HIGH. Why not?
I'm not sure if I am scaring or frustrating people, but so be it. This is not a project where "good enough" is going to cut it. I believe there's magic in our barn. I can't wait to share some history, and talk to people who are ready to contribute their barn stories to this blog! Together, we can create something that benefits generations to come.
There's no room for low-balling here.
A mission is forming. It's about our barn, and your barn. It's about creating places people can go to find out how farming was, how it is, and why it changes. It's about showing why this way of life matters, and why all people should have a connection to farm.
I haven't written much about yoga on my barn blog - but they are connected. Yoga aims to ground us - to build the connection of our minds to our bodies, and our bodies to earth. In doing so, our thoughts are more grounded, our emotions more stable. I wasn't long into my yoga practice before I realized that farming is truly a type of yoga - that cows embody a calming energy that can be therapeutic, and the physical demands of farming work to solidify our mind-body connections ("sensory organizing" in therapy-speak!).
People leaving the farm harms our society as a whole. We're disconnecting from a reality we desperately need. In so doing, we're allowing fear to erode our food system. That fear ultimately makes it more difficult for families with limited resources to make sound nutrition choices. We get so worried about if we should go organic (and then the cost) or about GMOs, that we give up and sit down with our pop and chips because somehow they seem more affordable and comforting. Do you see what just happened there?
... ANY vegetable and ANY milk is better than pop and chips!
If you live it... or if you ask a farmer. I've seen the light go on for so many as they speak with our dairy princesses. I've had the honor of turning that light on for a few myself! We need more opportunities to make that happen. People need old barns and as many avenues as we can create to connect with animals. We live in a huge world, and yet digital technology allows us to shrink it. A rainbow of thought you can fit in your phone.
It's up to each one of us to create the rainbow.
Go for the gold, and shoot for the stars. Such worthy missions here. Beautifully said.
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